In today’s world more than any other time it is important to instill in your child a sense of responsibility. Teaching them young will help them when they are older to have a sense of independence and never to depend on someone to do things for them. Teaching your child to be responsible for themselves and their actions early on is one of the best gifts you can give them. But where to start is a question that many parents struggle with. Below are some simple steps to get your child on the right track.

Giving children household chores is a sure way to teach them that they must be responsible for certain things. Don’t overwhelm them with chores of course. Just simple little things such as tidying their toys up is a great start, and they can never to be too young to do this.

Encouraging your children to keep their commitments is a must in teaching them to be responsible. If your child makes a play date or decides to play on the local football team, make sure that they follow through. Letting them quit or change their mind can make them think it’s okay to break commitments.

Hold your child accountable for their own actions. In other words don’t let them blame others for things that they have done such as not giving in homework or failing to do a chore. As they get older, they will realise that the blame game will not help them in life. Teach it early and they will be better for it.

Let your child help take care of their pets. Even a toddler can help to water and feed the cat or dog. Increase pet duties as they get older though not by overwhelming them with too much at once. Start small and work your way up to the bigger things.

The most important thing in teaching your children to be responsible at an early age in my opinion is to be a good role model. Don’t follow the saying “do as I say, not as I do.” All you are asking for is trouble. If you set a good example for your children such as always being on time or picking up after yourself then there is a greater chance that they will follow your lead. Remember children mimic their elders. If they see you throw litter, they will follow suit. If they see you lie to someone to avoid a commitment, chances are they will do the same. Teach your child early on that you are responsible and they will be to. Do it lovingly and with patience and you will be pleased at the responsible adults they become.